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Schadenfreude is pleasure derived from the misfortune of others.

Is there a word which means to take pleasure in the misfortune of another when previously that misfortune was inflicted on you by that other person?

I won't describe here (in public) the particular circumstances in which I find myself looking for such a word, instead please enjoy this example from Three Men In A Boat.

Rather an amusing thing happened while dressing that morning. I was very cold when I got back into the boat, and, in my hurry to get my shirt on, I accidentally jerked it into the water. It made me awfully wild, especially as George burst out laughing. I could not see anything to laugh at, and I told George so, and he only laughed the more. I never saw a man laugh so much. I quite lost my temper with him at last, and I pointed out to him what a drivelling maniac of an imbecile idiot he was; but he only roared the louder. And then, just as I was landing the shirt, I noticed that it was not my shirt at all, but George’s, which I had mistaken for mine; whereupon the humour of the thing struck me for the first time, and I began to laugh. And the more I looked from George’s wet shirt to George, roaring with laughter, the more I was amused, and I laughed so much that I had to let the shirt fall back into the water again.

Ed Guiness
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    Do you mean a word for pleasure derived from revenge? – b.roth Feb 02 '11 at 14:56
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    @Bruno Almost, but in the quoted example no revenge is taken (until the shirt drops again) – Ed Guiness Feb 02 '11 at 15:25
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    Schadenfreude is a German word. It is used among English speakers mainly out of amusement that the Germans would bother to make a word for such a thing. If you are looking for similar words, you really should be asking German speakers (deutch.stackexchage.com ?) – T.E.D. Aug 19 '11 at 13:29

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I can't think if a phrase for the feeling, but

  • "just deserts" is used to describe what the other person is felt to receive; and
  • "poetic justice" may describe the circumstances: the fact that they do receive their just deserts.
Colin Fine
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I believe the most appropriate term for that situation is that one is feeling revenged.

chaos
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    Did you mean avenged? I've never heard of 'revenged' as the adjective. – Mitch Sep 28 '11 at 18:21
  • @Mitch: No. Avenged has several inapplicable implications. I don't know what to tell you about the fact that you haven't seen revenged in this usage other than "sooner or later you will". – chaos Sep 28 '11 at 22:58
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We have a Japanese popular saying, 'the other's agony (trouble) is my own pleasure,' which I think exactly fits to the word shadenfreude. We also have another Japanese proverb, 'Misfortune (unhappiness) of others tastes (sweet) like honey'.

RegDwigнt
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Yoichi Oishi
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How about gloat or gloating?

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Gloating is nice, and variations on malicious glee always struck me as pretty.

RegDwigнt
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One word that is coming to me is spite.

petty ill will or hatred with the disposition to irritate, annoy, or thwart

[MW]

jimm101
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