Is there an idiom for the action when someone holds tightly onto his opinion? Like you keep to try convincing that person again and again but he keeps that opinion?
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4"Pig-headed" is probably the most common term. – Hot Licks Jan 28 '15 at 13:55
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5"Bull-headed" is, I think, slightly less derogatory. – Wayfaring Stranger Jan 28 '15 at 14:34
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1"Stiff-necked" is an idiom that might fit the bill. – fbrereto Jan 28 '15 at 16:52
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"He/she dug his heels in"
is often used to convey a specific act of stubbornness or defiance.
Or, if it is specific to the fact the person seems unwilling to hear what you are saying:
"I tried to explain to them, but they are just tone deaf to my ideas"
(they are not really deaf; it is just a metaphorical way of saying that they refuse to listen).
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Stubborn as a mule and obstinate as a mule may convey the idea:
- Cliché very stubborn. (*Also: as ~.) I tried to convince Jake to go to the doctor, but he's as stubborn as a mule. For four years, Henry pestered his parents to let him learn the trumpet. They tried to talk him into some other, quieter instrument, but he was stubborn as a mule, and now he has a trumpet.
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Thanks, but it's not about the person who is stubborn, rather on the action of stubbornness – Mansuro Jan 28 '15 at 09:37
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No, stubborn describes the person itself, what I'm asking about is something that describe the act of stubborness – Mansuro Jan 28 '15 at 09:43
A man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest was introduced by singer/songwriter Paul Simon in 1969 in the song titled The Boxer. This phrase or some variation might meet your need.
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Would the word be: intransigency. As defined by MW:
characterized by refusal to compromise or to abandon an often extreme position or attitude : UNCOMPROMISING
See also Thesaurus.com.
"Stuck in his ways" is what I often use to describe someone inflexible and kind of adamant.
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Not sure if 'dogmatic' would suit your purpose. As a metaphor, people also use 'cockroaches' to ideas that would never go away and keep coming back.
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The Middle English version of stubborn carried the sense of “untamable, implacable,” and there’s still a hint of that in how it is used today.
Few suggestions: Unbend (verb) means 'to change from a bent position, to straighten', and also 'to relax from stress or severity'. By contrast, the adj. unbending normally means 'unyielding, inflexible;
- Unbending- obstinate and stupid. (MW)
- Inflexible- in the sense of not making concessions. (MW)
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I suggest you use "headstrong" or "strong willed." Ideally, you want to refrain from the use of cliches or out of date metaphors. Also its not necessary to use "intransigency" when a common phrase is available.
I would go for closed-minded (or close-minded)
close-minded (comparative more close-minded, superlative most close-minded) unreceptive to new ideas or information; not open to any agreement.
If someone will not change their mind, no matter what, then you can call them closed-minded.
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