I'm having trouble understanding the following paragraph from Far From The Madding Crowd.
Had the wife now but gone no further. Yet, perhaps, under the harrowing circumstances, to speak out was the one wrong act which can be better understood, if not forgiven in her, than the right and politic one, her rival being now but a corpse. All the feeling she had been betrayed into showing she drew back to herself again by a strenuous effort of self-command.
1: Had the wife now but gone no further
Does this mean "If only the wife had not gone further."?
2: to speak out was the one wrong act which can be better understood, if not forgiven in her, than the right and politic one, her rival being now but a corpse.
What does he mean by this?