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I'm looking for a word with a positive undertone to describe a teenager who does her own thing and doesn't cave in to peer pressure. Any suggestions? Thanks.

Question edited 1/30/16. Someone marked this question as a duplicate, but I think the other question is quite different from the one already posted. The other question is asking about a single word to describe someone who doesn't follow the crowd for the single purpose of being contrary. A contrary state of mind has nothing to do with what I'm looking for. I'm writing a recommendation for a teenager who is polite, independent, confident, and doesn't follow the crowd... NOT out of a sense of being different for the sake of being different, and not because she's ornery and contrary, but because she's her own person, and not swayed by what the other teens are doing. Can we re-open this discussion?

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Consider Maverick:

A person who shows independence of thought and action, especially by refusing to adhere to the policies of a group to which he or she belongs. (TFD)

a person who refuses to follow the customs or rules of a group (M-W)

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lone wolf

a person who does not conform to generally accepted standards or customs

On the link, there are many good synonyms as well, including "counterculturist", and "individualist".

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free spirit

Google Definition:

noun

an independent or uninhibited person.

It's synonymous with nonconformist, but IMO it doesn't have the rebel without a cause undertone.

Google definition:

noun

a person who does not conform to prevailing ideas or practices in their behaviour or views.

CDM
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How about nonconformist? Or independent-minded?

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    Could you add dictionary entries to back this up? –  Jan 30 '16 at 00:40
  • Even rebel, no ? "What is a rebel? A man who says no" [Albert Camus The Rebel] "To be a rebel is not to be a revolutionary. It is more often but a way of spinning one's wheels deeper in the sand" [Kate Millett Sexual Politics] "No one can go on being a rebel too long without turning into an autocrat" [Lawrence Durrell Balthazar] – Baiwir Jan 30 '16 at 09:11
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    Please explain why either of these options is useful. Remember: you're answering for people who don't know the answer. – Matt E. Эллен Jan 30 '16 at 12:48
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In one word "independent", in two "independent minded".

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  • A side note for using "independent" as a noun (i.e. "John is an independent"): In the US, an independent is someone who is neither a Democrat nor a Republican. Depending on context and audience, that connotation is something to be aware of. –  Jan 30 '16 at 00:44
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"Independent-minded" fits, but not "independent" because that could mean she doesn't work well with others. Is she "self-actualized"?

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One possibility is self-confident:

Confidence is a feeling of trust in someone or something. To be self-confident is to have confidence in yourself. Self-confident people don't doubt themselves. This is usually a positive word: you can be self-confident without being cocky, arrogant, or overconfident. If you know what you’re doing, you have every reason to be self-confident.
Vocabulary.com

jxh
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eagle-spirited

He was the most dedicated, eagle-spirited, student-encouraging and highly moraled man there. Tributes

spirited: having a specified mood, disposition, or nature (used in combination): high-spirited; mean-spirited. Random House Kernerman Webster's College Dictionary

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Try radical or contrarian, independent thinker who rejects majority opinion.

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    This might be a good answer if you could provide definitions and their source, which is what ELU generally wants. – Xanne Apr 18 '17 at 07:08
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Iconoclast a destroyer of images used in religious worship, in particular

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