Questions tagged [kinship-terms]

Questions about kinship terms (words for family members).

English has sparse terminology for family members compared to many languages. It was not always so— Old English had terms such as faþu for paternal aunt— but by Middle English, the limited modern set was established:

father, mother, uncle, aunt, brother, sister, husband, wife, cousin, son, daughter, nephew, niece.

Multi-generational relationships are signified with grand- or great-, and relationships through marriage may be signified by step- or -in-law. The more extended relations with whom you share grandparents, great-grandparents, and so on are all referred to as cousins, where the level of consanguinity is indicated numerically (e.g. third cousin twice removed).

All of the common terms except cousin are gendered, and in general, preferred to their gender-neutral words such as spouse or parent, which may be seen as impersonal.

The result of this paucity of kinship terms is that nearly every question asking is there a specific English word for relation X is answered with either no, there isn't or they would not be considered a relation, and they may not be well-received. In some languages, one's mother's sister, mother's brother's wife, father's sister, and father's brother's wife might all be referred to with different terms; some languages will draw further distinctions based on the age or gender of the speaker. In modern English, however, all of these women could be known as an aunt.

The reason why English lacks the richness of some other languages when it comes to kinship terminology, or why it adopted French terms for some but not other relationships, or the like are questions of anthropology rather than language. As they cannot be known with any more certainty than any other quirk of English, they are likely to be closed as off-topic or primarily opinion-based.

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Is there an accepted rule for naming all of our various distant relatives (kinship terms)?

I’m going to the christening of my cousin’s first son soon. What is the proper name for his relation to me? Second nephew? Nephew once removed? Nothing? Looking at the overall picture, what's the accepted rule for the naming of all of our various…
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Is there a word for a younger aunt or uncle?

A maternal uncle is your mother's brother. What's the term for an uncle that is younger than you, or a niece/nephew that's older?
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When does an aunt’s partner or husband become an uncle?

Being the youngest of five siblings, with relatively old parents, I’ve always referred to my aunts and uncles as such, even though in fact only one of each pair is a blood relative. It never occurred to me as a child that in fact Uncle Ron was my…
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My uncle's widow remarried, Is she still my aunt?

I had an uncle (my father's brother) who I never met because he died before I was born. He has 2 kids though, my first cousins. His widow has since re-married and had 2 more children. Is she still my aunt? I know that in theory, she would have been…
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What is the relationship name of my wife's brother to me?

What is the relationship name of my wife's brother to me?
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Relation name of my mother's sister's son's wife?

My mother has a sister. That sister is then my aunt. My auntie's children are my first cousins. Is that correct? How then do I refer to my cousin's wife and their children. What is the relationship. The sentence I wish to complete relates to the…
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Non-related cousin?

I was wondering what the official term for the relationship described below is. So My Grandparents D & F had two sons: T & E. T is my father. E married L and had three kids: P, E, & A which are my cousins. Now L has a sister S (P,E, & A's Aunt)…
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What do you call your grand-father's brother? (grand- v great-)

Your father's father is called your grand-father, yet your father's uncle is typically called your great-uncle (or so it seems with anybody I converse with). Why the inconsistency?
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is there a word or phrase for the family unit that only includes "immediate family" but not spouses and children?

This word would include me, my brothers and sister as well as my mother and father. It would not include my wife or kids. And as a bonus, is there a word for the group that would only include myself, my wife and kids?
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Is there a word for your parent's significant other's children?

My mother has a boyfriend, he has kids. How do I refer to them in relation to me besides saying my mom's boyfriend's kids. My mother is not biologically related to her boyfriends kids.
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What do the parents of married children call each other? As in, the mother of the bride to the mother of the groom?

I am looking for an expression or term that would describe the relationship between the two mothers of their married children.
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What does a girl call the second husband of her widowed stepmother?

The girl's father has died and his wife, her stepmother, becomes her legal guardian. When the stepmother remarries, is her husband the girl's stepfather? If not, what is he?
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What Do You Call Your Child's Sibling

Pretty much in the title but to make it more explicit: You have a child X X has a half-sibling Y You are not in a relationship with either of Y's parents (formerly you were with one of them to produce X) What do you call Y with respect to…
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What is my 1st cousin twice removed 4 great grandfather to me?

My first cousin twice removed married my great-great aunt, so what is my first cousin twice removed’s four-times-great-grandfather to me? Do we share common ancestors?
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Relations by marriage after the married person dies

Let's say Alice is married to Bob. Alice died. Is Alice's mother still referred to as Bob's mother-in-law? Let's say Alice also had a brother Charlie. Is Bob still referred to as the uncle of Charlie's children? In other words: does the title…
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